Dating someone with bpd borderline personality disorder county dating sites in usa 2016

02 Nov

Keep this in mind when they start feeling negatively.

If they are in a relationship with you, it’s probably because they want to be with you.

This is understandable when interactions with parents and family members were abusive, they have been taught not to trust. As a result of their lack of self-esteem they tend to choose dominant partners who are able to give their life purpose and meaning through association.

They fear abandonment which is either real (such as the impending break up of a relationship) or imaginary e.g. They also undertake in behaviour that perpetuates their own abandonment.

Also, they're unable to have a firm grasp over their own self-identity.Just looking for similar experiences or insights into BPD in general. Borderlines do not know who they are and can spend a life time trying to find out.(I'm usually pretty knowledgeable about mental illness, but this is one of the most confusing/disturbing ones I've ever encountered). It's to the point where i have not said a word to either of them in a long time. This may be evidenced through numerous career changes, frequent moves to different geographical locations and attempts to fit in with others.A few months ago I had the unfortunate luck of getting involved with a girl who I'm fairly sure has BPD.To be clear I don't know for a fact if she did, but after spending countless hours reading up on people who've dated people with BPD and the disorder the similarities are uncanny.