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I was part of the generation of young women who lived and breathed by the lessons of Sex and the City, so I was of the delusional notion that I’d land my very own Mr. It wasn’t necessary to my existence, but definitely something I wanted. My career was always at the forefront, but since I'm a living, breathing human, it was also my intention to land a partner at some point.Whether it is an expression of postfeminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus.The book sheds light on everything from the differences in what young men and women want from a hook up to why freshmen girls are more likely to hook up than their upper-class sisters and the effects this period has on the sexual and romantic relationships of both men and women after college.Importantly, she shows us that the standards for young men and women are not as different as they used to be, as women talk about “friends with benefits” and “one and done” hook ups.

The imbalance has spilled over into the post-college dating scene.

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So, like any single woman in the city, I went through the motions of dating, having flings and a couple of short relationships in the hopes of finding “the one.” Before I met my fiancé — not in New York City mind you — I had been dating in this town for almost ten years; ten long and arduous years of ups and downs, drama, tears, joy and the rest of it. New Yorkers have a different idea of what love is, and for a lot of us, it’s not even a priority until later on in the game.

However, with the chapter of my dating life officially closed (I hope), I like to think I learned a couple things.